Impact of Lust and Nudity on Spiritual Growth
Some modern philosophers have argued that sexual pleasures, beyond those necessary for procreation, of the appropriate kind are a useful part of the human experience and therefore worth pursuing. What exactly is considered appropriate varies with thinkers but in no case does it involve compulsion, inducement or force by one human on another. Sexual indulgence, if any, must only be between adults and from mutual interest and agreement.
However, spiritual literature and saints across diverse
traditions of the planet have advised humans to overcome urges of lust and
described that along with two other emotions - greed and anger – it is a cause
of driving humans to hell. The Bhagvat Gita, a revered scripture of the Hindus,
describes these as the three gates to hell. It only lauds limited sexual desire
i.e. that associated with procreation as divine. The new testament of the
Christians warns not just against lustful activity but even lustful
thoughts. However sexual desire within marriage is not considered bad.
Some have argued that lust leads to romance and love. Love
is one of the most beautiful emotions that a human can experience and few
thinkers contest that. While sexual indulgence as a part of love may rank
closely with sexual desire within marriage, it is by no means same as the
English language implies by equating sexual indulgence with making love. The
Saint Kabir of South Asia in fact went on to
say that, where there is love, there is no lust and where there is lust there
is no love. This in fact is the experience of many good humans who have
experience of true romantic love. Then sex becomes unnecessary.
Much sexual indulgence can lead to physical weakness,
disability and even physical harm. Promiscuity can lead a human to disgraceful
behavior, disease and becoming a victim of crime. The Devilish or Satanic use
temptation to entrap humans and sexual temptation is their primary weapon next
to that of false promises of wealth and power. Uncontrolled desires have led to
fall of kingdoms and impeachment of a President of the strongest country on the
planet in modern times.
The difficulty with not avoiding lust is that if not checked
it tends to become a major preoccupation with humans. It then prevents them
from experiencing other more durable pleasures the universe has to offer such
as beauty in nature. It can also lead to diversion of attention from other
pursuits that would have led a human to attain material progress in the world
if not a spiritual one. As regards spiritual progress, that becomes a distant
dream for the one preoccupied with lust. Therefore as Patanjali, the father of
yoga has said at the outset of his text on yoga, a human must overcome lust
just as much as things like violence, lies, stealing and greed in order to progress on the evolutionary path, become a more evolved being and ultimately attain union with the Infinite source from which all emerged.
When a desire is strong, merely suppressing it may have an
adverse impact and limited, careful observant exposure then seems better.
Spiritual texts recognize that giving up lust is not a simple matter and it is
something that has to be worked on gradually, easily without forceful
suppression through experience, wisdom and learning. The Bhagvat Gita goes on
to state that when one gives up urges of lust, one indeed becomes a yogi. It is
something that may not be achieved in a single life time. Several lives may be
required for most but the very first step for any wise human is to recognize
that lust is not a good thing. It is a major weakness that they must works
towards eradicating. If they do not do that, there are all the chances that
matters will become worse rather than better. The best approach is to gently
push away thoughts of lust from mind soon as they arrive and replace them with
other thoughts. In case one continues to think in that direction, the thought
will become progressively more difficult to control. Such thoughts sponsor
sexual biological reactions within the body, something Nature created to assist
procreation, that in turn sponsor more
such thoughts until the only escape remains indulgence. Once the mind discovers
other thoughts of worthy pleasures and joy, the power of lust over it will
weaken. Eventually a soul shall be freed to make progress in this world and the
hereafter to godly states of being and joy.
Nudity:
Since the previous discussion may have been found too serious
by some, let us return to a bit of humor on the topic. Recently a major social
media website censored a post containing a statue of the nude Greek god Neptune. There was no obvious suggestion of lust in the
image since the god was not having an erection. However, many modern humans not
used to such a display tend to get excited or shocked by it nevertheless. The website said
it led to too much focus on body parts. What in fact may have happened is that it led them to focus much on a part of the body that ancient Greeks apparently did not. With ancient
Greeks nude statues of gods and other nudity was common place.
Concealing something may go to increase curiosity and
fascination with what has been hidden. Much covering may play the
opposite role of becoming a sponsor of lust rather than eradicating it depending on culture. Those
in Athens, some
of the most evolved humans the planet has seen for a brief period in their
history seem realized this, hence the nudity. The Christian Bible illustrates the point by describing Adam
and Eve as nude in a heavenly garden but feeling a sense of shame and need to
cover the moment they were exposed to knowledge, seems of lust. There are religious
sects in South Asia since ancient times such as
the Naga sadhus and Digambar Jains where full nudity is commonplace. A highly revered spiritual mentor of this author often meditated for hours nude in his Himalayan abode.
Therefore while lust is regarded as a debilitating emotion
the avoidance of nudity is regarded by some as not an aid but a hindrance
towards this goal. It may merely suppress and reinforce such thoughts leading a human to repressed and an unhealthy unnatural behavior, not an evolved one as those in ancient Athens seem to have. This
author has tried to illustrate the point in a lighter vein in his Novel – Nude
besides the Lake – an extraordinary story of
beauty and human goodness. The novel can be found through a simple search on
google or at Amazon and other retailers.
Evolved beings neither suffer from urges of lust nor the shame of nudity
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